In fact, first impressions are not generally all that great. That’s because they often come from our biases and emotions, rather than our deeper, more thoughtful selves.

We can usually get a more accurate picture of someone by seeing how they behave with different people, at different times of the day and year, and how they respond in stressful situations and in good times.

So follow the urging of the stars this month.

Be patient and get to know someone before deciding whether they’re right for you or not.